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Showing posts with label size acceptance. Show all posts
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Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Prentice and Tuttle First LP

Here is a wonderful rarity! This is a record made by folk musicians Prentice and Tuttle in 1970.
Perhaps the name isn't familiar to you. It isn't to many people. I love this music, although I was only perhaps a year old when this was made. 
Their second LP, Every Loving Day, can be bought in CD form here. There is also a link on Ezhevika Fields, a blog which is dedicated to finding and sharing lesser known music.
A little about me, since this is my first post here and you are probably wondering what a "Porn Baboon" is. I created the profile when I was trying to break into adult affiliate marketing. I no longer am involved in that line of work, but the profile is fun, so I kept it. Also, my sister and my cousin and I, who were involved in the affiliate marketing adventure together, met some of the very cool Team Netherworld people during that time. I love that we have been asked to be part of this team!
My real name is Pol. My nickname is Poe because I have always enjoyed writing poetry and stories. I am Vietnamese-American, born in 1969. I work in various areas such as construction and handyman work and also some caregiving work, anything I can to pay the bills. It's hard for me to hold down a job with specific hours because of my mental health issues. I have been lucky to be able to freelance.
I love all sorts of music, but my passion is stuff from the 60's and 70's, particularly psychedelic rock, prog rock, and folk rock. This is possibly because my father loved this sort of music and collected many rare albums along the way. When I was young, we would go to festivals. He still enjoys festivals, but with his health these days, we are not able to go as frequently.
I would like to leave some thoughts for my friends with larger bodies who have struggled with eating disorders. I know I have never had this issue, and so you may think I have no room to speak, but I hope you will hear me. The myriad of problems attributed to big people and used as an excuse to treat you with scorn by rude people who do not know better are suffered by my father, a tiny Vietnamese man. 
My father stands barely five foot seven. He weighs barely 120 pounds. He has adult onset (type 2) diabetes. He has heart problems. He has painful joint problems. His blood pressure is high. 
He only likes to eat a few certain things, such as fish, fruit, certain vegetables, and rice. He rarely eats sweets except for the occasional almond cookie. His favorite sweet treat is figs or dates. If I bring home fig newtons, he eats a couple of those after dinner. He loves to drink green tea at every meal.
Where some people have trouble lowering weight, he has trouble keeping his weight up. Sadly, he is also beginning to show signs of cognition loss. He is not a well man.
My point here is I know how some of you have struggled, being belittled for something which is not so much in your control, although it is fashionable to make you think your body is all your fault. 
From what I have observed, people are as they are. Some of us cannot gain weight if we try. I am one of these. Others cannot lose weight no matter what they try, including some rather unhealthy methods such as using stimulant drugs and herbs, and certainly making themselves unhappy through deprivation and hating themselves.
These thoughts have some personal concern to me, as my sister has suffered with eating disorders due to a fear of being ridiculed for tending to be plump. 
Life is too short for such things as hating one's body. I know you might think me a hypocrite saying this, considering that I do not have a "problem" body. However, looking at my father, I wonder if I am looking in a mirror at problems I may have in 20 years.
Let us not worry about such things as having a perfect body, which is impossible. Let us enjoy sharing our favorite music and other passions, and let us love and be kind to each other.

~DJ Poe~

Monday, May 26, 2014

Deconstructing Pac Man Feat. Goldie Everything Real

This is my reaction to hearing the above song and viewing the video for the first time.

The song has a good sound. Perhaps it's not conventionally acceptable for an old fart like me to like a new hip-hop tune like this one, but I really don't care about conventions. The song has a slow, smooth groove blending with edgy lyrics.
Unfortunately, the subject matter is, overall, uninspiring. I am all about people expressing solidarity. Never did care for the "pro-gangsta" vibe in some hip-hop tunes, although I do understand the reason behind it. Actually, the reason isn't even so much the fact that the artists are expressing what it's like to live in the ghetto or projects. This was originally the case. Then, record companies took over and exploited and glamorized gang culture. 
I'm not going to delve deeper into this factor as there are others who can explain it far better than I can. I'm an outsider looking in. I've never been involved in either gang culture or the recording industry.
I always think its a positive thing when artists of different racial backgrounds come together on a project. 
One of the dancers in the video is a larger woman. This isn't something that one sees very often. 
Not all of the women in the video are scantily dressed.
However...
There is at least one mostly naked model with extremely large, silicone enhanced breasts. I don't know if she's a current porn star, as I don't keep up with "who's who" in pornography. The general vibe I get is the "we can get with porn stars" idea. So don't care, Fellows. Treating women like props has been done and overdone.
There are scenes where the band members are sitting with fully clothed women on a bed and not behaving in a sexual fashion with said women. It's a "hanging with our homegirls" vibe, and I like that well enough. What I don't care for is the fact that, as with so many videos, the women are props rather than partners.
If you like this sort of music, you'll likely enjoy the song. Overall, everything that's been done in the video has been done before. It's a trite, tired way of treating women. Yeah, you're in a band, you can get tail. And just like every young dude before you, you see the need to brag about it. Same old story. Moving on.
A word to the wise: avoid the comments on this one; they're odious. I'm sure this surprises no-one, given that it's You Tube.

~DJ Ellie~

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Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Hi, I'm Faycin

I'm just one tiny speck of dust in the Universe.

I'm trying to realize that every speck of dust deserves good things.

I don't like that some specks of dust think that it's okay to treat other specks of dust badly based on their physical appearance or mental problems.

I am mentally ill. I have bipolar disorder and obsessive compulsive disorder. My OCD partially manifests as hoarding. I don't hoard animals, I hoard items. I have a private blog about my struggles with hoarding. I do not give the URL to just anybody. If I am ever able to get my place into passable shape, as I am struggling to do, I will publish the results as a book. My little camera takes great pictures but it's a battery hog. I need a backup battery and to see if there's some kind of charger for those little flat batteries.

I am fiftyish years old and most of my life has been a lot of pain and struggle. It shouldn't have to be this way. So if you are the kind of person who comes along and starts making it that way for me, fuck you, you are out. I don't have to put up with your shit. I've put up with way too much shit from way too many psychic vampires already.

I write stuff, both mental health and size acceptance related blog posts, and also fiction. I am a political and religious liberal. I don't like zealots of any kind, and that includes the type of atheist zealot who thinks it's okay to belittle others for having spiritual beliefs. I can accept where atheists are coming from, I just don't like the type who think they're superior for having no spiritual beliefs. Since none of us know for sure, then fuck you if you don't think I have the right to speculate. I don't go around forcing my esoteric agnosticism down your throat. Don't shove your fundamentalist Christianity, extremist Islam, or acerbic Atheism down mine. Or if you're one of those Satanists who is like "fuck you, I'm so cool because I'm a Satanist and you are so inferior," you can fuck off as well. You're nothing but a prat and I don't have the time to waste on you.

I'm also a KHEL 666 DJ. The pay is terrible but everything else about it is really cool.

KHEL 666 Blog

KHEL 666 Facebook Page

Hope to have a few saying hello, but even if you don't, I'll keep doing this anyway.

XOXO,

Faycin

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Gee, I'm Sooooo Sorry

I'm also "sorry" if you don't like my unabashed, self-accepting, FAT-itude! Breaks my big bad heart.

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Alternative Disney Princesses

This was made and shared by Nona Bau.

I think Disney should also make a spirited fat princess. Because it took me half my life to learn that fat does not mean ugly. I was an active little chubby girl, but all anyone ever noticed was the chubby part. I come from a chubby family. My mom didn't let us have candy except on Halloween, Christmas, and Easter. Our meals were meat, potatoes, and vegetables as well as a salad. The only snacks we were allowed were fruit or cheese and crackers. If we had dessert, it was something like apple cobbler. We hardly ever had fast food. Everything was made from scratch, and was good, healthy, basic food.

My parents really didn't give me and my siblings a hassle about being chubby. It was the kids at school. If I was seen eating anything--even a carrot--I could be sure that someone would moo or oink at me. I don't think it should come as any surprise that I became bulimic in my teens.

Fat does not mean lazy and it doesn't mean ugly. People come in different shapes and sizes. It's time we as a society stopped encouraging a good half of the population to hate themselves.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Can I Get a Hell Yeah?

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Every Size is a Good Size

People come in all sizes, and we need to be good to each other rather than making nasty comments about one another based on arbitrary attributes such as size. Life is too short for hate. This is a beautiful image depicting someone who looks like a fun person! --Spectra