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Thursday, March 14, 2013

Fire Danger

Such a tragedy. I don't know the details but I had some thoughts come to mind about greater fire danger in buildings that are poorly maintained or depreciated.
There are many people who live in sub-standard housing. The intent of my writing is not to blame those people for living in such conditions. If one is impoverished (or not even technically impoverished but nonetheless struggling financially) it is hard to keep up with proper building maintenance.
I myself live in a depreciated manufactured home. The fire dangers here are less than they might be in many homes. My furnace is not operational. I utilize space heaters in my sleeping area. The space heaters of old were very dangerous, but the modern ones have many safety features such as cool housing and a fail-safe which turns them off if they tip or overheat.
The stove which came with this building stopped working years ago. I have a countertop convection oven, a microwave, and a slow cooker. And if I were to be completely honest, I eat a lot of takeout food.
Most of us are ill equipped to go into the world and start raising a family. Unless you come from a family with a parent who is very savvy about building safety (my father was. Sadly, he died in an accident when I was fifteen, but he passed on some good knowledge for his children.) you don't know what to look for. I had some idea what to look for. I also had my older brother with me when I was looking for my first apartment. He was like a second father.
People live in poverty for many reasons, most of which are no fault of their own. Mental and physical illness are two primary reasons for people ending up in sub-standard conditions.
However, it isn't only depreciated or sub-standard housing which has fire danger. One of my cousins moved into a townhome which, while not high end, was not sub-standard by appearances. It had been built in the mid-seventies. The wiring was aluminum, which was a cost-cutting method used at the time it was constructed. It is also very risky. She and her then-husband had to spend $800 to have copper pigtails placed on the tips of the wires for safety.
This is the kind of stuff that isn't taught in schools. If your parents don't know it, the likelihood is, you won't either. And believe me, homebuilders and even regulatory agencies really do not give a shit.

Monday, February 18, 2013

The Mobile Vlog and Mobile Homes


Come ride along with this guy. It's fun! At the end of the Vlog, he poses the question: Would you rather rent or own?

Here was my answer.

I enjoyed "riding" with you. I just want to warn everyone, do not every buy a mobile home. Do not ever buy a mobile home. And I repeat, do not ever buy a mobile home. I am stuck with this money pit and its 15% interest mortgage which I bought out of desperation in 2001. I was totally ignorant and it seemed like a good idea at the time. But now I have not only $650 a month mortgage but $550 a month lot rent. They raise that shit every year without fail. Bad deal, People! 

At this point in time, I am also stuck needing to buy a new car because the clutch in my car that has 200,000 miles on it has gone south, and it isn't worth it to pay $2000 to fix it. I'm driving my late father's old truck right now. It's a good truck, but I really need a vehicle of my own, because this is the auxiliary vehicle that I share with my mother.

So...yeah.

Lest you wonder why I never have any money.

Monday, July 9, 2012

Hi Dumplings, It's Me on Posterous

The girls (my writing sisters) have been at me to start one of these Posterous blogs. Today seemed like a good time to do so.'

Thank you to my lovely Writing Sister Tempest LeTrope for her condolences regarding my dad's death. He passed away last night at 9:51 P.M. He had been struggling after having a massive heart attack on Valentine's Day. Just two days before my middle sister's birthday, which is really harsh. He was 79 years old.

I'm mucking about on the Internet for a while, kind of in shock, trying to pretend things are normal, misspelling every other word. I didn't sleep well last night. So here I am, creating this new blog in the most fucking faggoty colors I could possibly choose, because nothing bolsters my spirits more than pissing off homophobes. Even if no homophobes ever end up reading this blog, the idea that they might see it in all it's pink glory gives me a nasty little zing of glee.

I'll probably talk about my dad here. Our relationship wasn't perfect, but actually, he wasn't a homophobe. He was just super pragmatic and practical, and being gay in this world isn't very practical. He didn't quite get how anybody could be gay because he wasn't. But he didn't give me any shit about it. When I came out, he said "you sure?" and looked at me like I was nuts. But he already thought I was nuts because I'm such a wet blanket. He let it go after that.

Dad actually liked my fiancé. I think he really liked Dylan being a physician's assistant because he could ask all kinds of medical questions for free. Like I said, he was pragmatic. He also liked the fact that I finally chose a guy who wasn't a complete shithead for a change. He found my previous choices a little questionable. He wasn't the only one.

I know I need to try to get some sleep or I'm going to fall apart. I need to hold it together for Mom, and my sisters. I don't feel really sad right now, just numb. As a counselor I know how this goes. It will come in waves. Right now my mind is in denial.

Death isn't the end, it's just a transition. I'll see you again, Dad. Rest in peace.

Proud to have been your son, even if we didn't always see eye to eye.

Here come the tears.

Adam

Sunday, July 8, 2012

The Truth About Life

Sunday, June 10, 2012

Work Ethic

Saturday, June 9, 2012

DJ Fumble Fingers

Hello, KHEL 666 friends! I have a serious case of fumble fingers tonight. I only got about three hours of sleep, so I guess that may be to blame. Sure, why not?

Tonight I'm going to share some really oddball tracks with you. You'll never find this on the top 40 station, that's for sure!

Follow along on our KHEL 666 blogger blog, or our Facebook page.

This is me: sleepy, and all thumbs.

Looks kind of Lovecraftian, doesn't it?

I don't know where this is from. It's something I found on the Internet. It is not my creation. Really!

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Can't Please Everyone